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Conversations With My Accountability Coach

It’s 5:45 a.m. on a Friday when I hear the ping.

“Are you up Kristyl? If not, get out of bed, you can do this!”

I wipe the sleep from my tired eyes, begrudgingly roll out of bed and head downstairs for the coffee maker.

But wait. Must drink a full glass of room temperature lemon water before my caffeine fix and start boiling the almond milk for my oatmeal.

Even though she’s not in my house, she’s in my head — I’m talking about my new accountability coach.

Yes, I said it, I have an accountability coach. Sounds kind of fancy, hey? Like something reserved for the Real Housewives of  ____?

Well, I’m no reality star, nor am I even the teensiest bit fancy. I’m just a regular frazzled mom with a messy car, shrinking bank account and expanding waist line.

Ashley McIver is a fellow Valley Mom and neighbour of mine with a smoking hot bod, two young children and a brand new business coaching women like myself to be their best selves. Ladies, this woman has her shit together. She’s there to hold her clients to their choices and actions and encourage them to continue down a healthy path to their best self.

Having been a chronic yo-yo dieter since the age of 19, and someone who has struggled with an eating disorder and addiction issues in the past, I’ve always wrestled with that all or nothing mentality.

I’m by no means overweight, but my clothes have become tighter since my grandfather passed away last month. I’m what you’d call an emotional eater — if I’m sad, anxious or hurt, I’ll try to fill that hole in my soul with carbs… and plenty of them. Two years ago, it would have been wine, but that’s a whole other story.

I was eating with reckless abandonment, which I detailed in a food diary for my new coach. I cringed when she flipped through the detailed food log, remembering the greasy chicken wings, burgers, ice cream, chips and waffles, washed down by two massive virgin caesars — that was all consumed in one day. I felt like a sodium monster.

“Remember, losing weight and being healthy DOESN’T MEAN YOU ARE DIETING, ” explained Ashley during our first session as she took my measurements.

“We are just going to tweak your eating plan so to speak, and get you started on the right path. If you want to stay home and not set foot in a gym I will make you a home program you can work on  2-3 times a week at home and still see results.”

Since we started two weeks ago, Ashley has been helping me reach my goal of finding that happy-medium where I can have my thai takeout or cake AND the kale smoothies, and not feel guilty about any of it. She also has me dialled into a fitness regimen at the gym I’m already attending (Inspire Fitness) of two weight lifting classes a week, a cardio class and then 30 minutes of walking on the days I’m not at the gym. To fit these classes in, I’ve committed to a 6:15 a.m. weekly bootcamp class, which is something I would have NEVER done on my own.

There’s also the random fitness challenges that comes my way to keep things interesting.”

One of Vancouver’s top Mom Bloggers, Kristyl Clark is a work-at-home mom of two little Valley girls proving there is nothing bland about the burbs. Her adventurous family seems to always be out on some sort of crazy quest, from helicopter rides and wild river rafting, to top-secret paranormal investigations and living the high-life sampling the fine wines and foods of the Fraser Valley region. The ValleyMom.ca blog inspires her loyal fanbase through the trials and tribulations of suburban family living, guiding readers to local hotspots and hidden gems in her Canadian backyard

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  • Janine Cahill

    March 20, 2019 at 5:08 am

    I’m so proud of you kiddo! You have inspired me also to go the they gym more often although not the 6 a.m. classes just yet! Lol! I’m determined to get rid of my paunch and no more wine on the week days. You are looking amazing my dear and your a good inspiration! Love you xo

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