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How I’ve Finally Learned to Love My Curls

It wasn’t until I was three that my hair started to sprout.

Up until then, a sparse mass of curly locks crowned my little head –  nothing substantial enough for a barrette or elastic band to secure it in place.

While the other little girls in Kindergarten had long, shiny hair that flowed past their shoulders, my mousy mass of spirals was always an unruly mess, much to my mother’s dismay.

Despite her many attempts to smooth it down with a brush, or crimp it (yes, I am a child of the 80s) my hair just couldn’t be tamed.

In high school, I decided I didn’t only just despise the fact that my hair was wavy, the boring colour also had to go.

As my friend and I approached the hair dye isle of the grocery store, visions of silky blonde locks danced in my head. I decided right then and there that being as blonde as a Barbie doll would solve all my hair problems and teenaged insecurities.

Spoiler alert: it didn’t.

“What did you do?” mom asked when I walked in the front door with tears streaming down my acne-peppered cheeks.

I was blonde…

and orange…

and green…

it wasn’t a good look.

Mom managed to fix it, only temporarily, by applying a box of red dye from the drugstore. It looked pretty good(ish), but the dye was quick to fade, and my hair, which was in pretty bad shape from all the processing, was beginning to look like straw.

To make matters worse, I had to wait two whole years for it to grow out. Those roots were brutal.

In my 20’s I was introduced to a life-changing device–the hair straighter.

It took a long time to get it slick, but I was happy to sacrifice time to achieve the straight hair I had always desired. But as they say, too much of a good thing can be a bad thing.

After years of subjecting my hair to the abuse of a flat iron, my once healthy locks had once again turned to lifeless, lacklustre straw-like strands.

Now, as a  busy, frazzled mother of two young girls who barely fits in time to shower, I’ve decided to let my hair go with the flow, quite literally.

At 37, I’ve been forced to embrace my natural curls and have even grown quite fond of my crazy coif.

Both of my daughters, one a fiery red head and the other born with brown hair just like mom’s, have curly locks that can’t be tamed. Wherever they go, strangers comment on their curls and tell them “they must get that from their mother.”

Seeing my girls with their curly mops has given me a whole new appreciation for the hair I was born with.

It has also made me realize it’s a huge part of my identity. Now, when I wear my hair straight, I feel as though I’m taking all the little kinks and quirks out of my personality.

Ta-Da!

curly hair

Now if only I can learn to embrace my dimples. Unlike Molly and Zoe’s adorable dots that rest high on their cherubic cheeks, mine are located down south and around the back.

Catch my drift?

~This article was originally published on This Bird’s Day

One of Vancouver’s top Mom Bloggers, Kristyl Clark is a work-at-home mom of two little Valley girls proving there is nothing bland about the burbs. Her adventurous family seems to always be out on some sort of crazy quest, from helicopter rides and wild river rafting, to top-secret paranormal investigations and living the high-life sampling the fine wines and foods of the Fraser Valley region. The ValleyMom.ca blog inspires her loyal fanbase through the trials and tribulations of suburban family living, guiding readers to local hotspots and hidden gems in her Canadian backyard

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